chore: full sweep — docs sync, SSH key module extraction, NFS dedup, dead code removal

Documentation fixes:
- README/AGENTS: rename tailscale-exit-node → tailscale-router, add ha-server
  build type and proxmox-ha-server-{1,2} host table rows, add baremetal to
  platform list, remove references to non-existent flake-target-refactor-spec.md
  and remove-sensetive-info-refactor.md
- docs/auto-installer.md: fix lxc-tailscale-exit-node → lxc-tailscale-router,
  add pxe-minimal to the flake outputs list
- variables.nix: fix domainControllerIp comment — IPA is the authoritative DNS
  at .253 (Pi-hole is gone), not a forwarding intermediary

Code deduplication:
- Extract duplicate SSH host-key preservation activation scripts from
  modules/platforms/lxc.nix and modules/platforms/proxmox.nix into a shared
  modules/common/preserve-ssh-host-key.nix; both platforms now import it
- Replace 8-line hand-enumerated NFS export lists in server.nix and ha-server.nix
  with a mkNfsExports helper that generates exports from vars.nfsShares — adding
  a share to variables.nix now propagates to both exporters automatically

Dead code removal:
- modules/common/configuration.nix: remove leftover NixOS skeleton comments
  (hardware-configuration import, grub lines) that were never used
- modules/docker/enable-service.nix: remove commented-out listenOptions and
  daemon.settings blocks
- hosts/server/host.nix, hosts/nix-cache/host.nix: remove #DOCKER_HOST comments

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

variables.nix

@@ -16,7 +16,7 @@
   serverIp = "192.168.2.226"; # server (NFS/ZFS) Proxmox VM LAN IP
   dockerIp = "192.168.2.225"; # docker Proxmox VM LAN IP
   pbsIp = "192.168.2.244"; # Proxmox Backup Server LAN IP (not NixOS-managed)
-  domainControllerIp = "192.168.2.253"; # FreeIPA domain controller / primary DNS (not NixOS-managed)
+  domainControllerIp = "192.168.2.253"; # FreeIPA domain controller — authoritative DNS for sweet.home (not NixOS-managed)
   ipaServer = "domain-controller.sweet.home"; # FreeIPA server hostname (used by security.ipa and Kerberos; must be a resolvable FQDN, not an IP)
 
   # Cross-host references (LAN hostnames/users other hosts reach over the network)