chore: full sweep — docs sync, SSH key module extraction, NFS dedup, dead code removal

Documentation fixes:
- README/AGENTS: rename tailscale-exit-node → tailscale-router, add ha-server
  build type and proxmox-ha-server-{1,2} host table rows, add baremetal to
  platform list, remove references to non-existent flake-target-refactor-spec.md
  and remove-sensetive-info-refactor.md
- docs/auto-installer.md: fix lxc-tailscale-exit-node → lxc-tailscale-router,
  add pxe-minimal to the flake outputs list
- variables.nix: fix domainControllerIp comment — IPA is the authoritative DNS
  at .253 (Pi-hole is gone), not a forwarding intermediary

Code deduplication:
- Extract duplicate SSH host-key preservation activation scripts from
  modules/platforms/lxc.nix and modules/platforms/proxmox.nix into a shared
  modules/common/preserve-ssh-host-key.nix; both platforms now import it
- Replace 8-line hand-enumerated NFS export lists in server.nix and ha-server.nix
  with a mkNfsExports helper that generates exports from vars.nfsShares — adding
  a share to variables.nix now propagates to both exporters automatically

Dead code removal:
- modules/common/configuration.nix: remove leftover NixOS skeleton comments
  (hardware-configuration import, grub lines) that were never used
- modules/docker/enable-service.nix: remove commented-out listenOptions and
  daemon.settings blocks
- hosts/server/host.nix, hosts/nix-cache/host.nix: remove #DOCKER_HOST comments

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

modules/common/preserve-ssh-host-key.nix

@@ -0,0 +1,35 @@
+# Shared activation-script logic to preserve the SSH host key across
+# nixos-rebuild on platforms that embed the key via environment.etc (lxc and
+# proxmox).  When NIXOS_HOST_KEYS_DIR is not set the key is absent from
+# environment.etc, and NixOS's etc activation removes any /etc file not in
+# the new generation — which would destroy the live key and break sops-nix
+# decryption permanently.  These scripts save the key to /run before etc
+# removes it, then restore it afterward.
+#
+# Explicit deps enforce the correct ordering: without them the topological
+# sort places preserveSshHostKey after etc (confirmed live on lxc-tor-relay:
+# position 7 vs etc's position 5), so the key is gone before it can be saved.
+_: {
+  system.activationScripts = {
+    preserveSshHostKey = ''
+      if [ -f /etc/ssh/ssh_host_ed25519_key ]; then
+        cp /etc/ssh/ssh_host_ed25519_key /run/sshd-host-key-preserve.tmp
+        cp /etc/ssh/ssh_host_ed25519_key.pub /run/sshd-host-key-preserve.pub.tmp
+      fi
+    '';
+
+    restoreSshHostKey = {
+      deps = [ "etc" ];
+      text = ''
+        if [ ! -f /etc/ssh/ssh_host_ed25519_key ] && [ -f /run/sshd-host-key-preserve.tmp ]; then
+          install -m 0600 /run/sshd-host-key-preserve.tmp /etc/ssh/ssh_host_ed25519_key
+          install -m 0644 /run/sshd-host-key-preserve.pub.tmp /etc/ssh/ssh_host_ed25519_key.pub
+        fi
+        rm -f /run/sshd-host-key-preserve.tmp /run/sshd-host-key-preserve.pub.tmp
+      '';
+    };
+
+    etc = { deps = [ "preserveSshHostKey" ]; };
+    setupSecrets = { deps = [ "restoreSshHostKey" ]; };
+  };
+}